One tiny but hard change that can actually help you to realise your true value

The secret ingredient is to become a little secret

Never accept anyone else’s version of you

Key Takeaways:

  • Never wait for people to tell you that you aren’t wanted by them. Realise it by their actions and value yourself accordingly.
  • Never try to convince someone to be interested in you if they’ve sufficiently indicated to you that they really don’t bother about what you do.
  • Timing is the key. You find that you might have a chance on something then try to capitalise it as soon as you can. But, if you find that wherever you are, you aren’t getting the right treatment for your efforts then move away because it gets worse with the delay.
  • Love yourself the way you want others to love you.
  • Remember to appreciate yourself from time to time because you might not find good people around you all the time but you need to be good to yourself all the time. You are your biggest support system.



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Rahul Haripriya

Rahul Haripriya

A Professor of Computer Science Engineering, Author-Lockdown Discovery and a professional blogger. I write and share experiences to inspire people